Each session builds on the last — from naming your shared vision early on, to closing with love and a commitment you wrote together. Here's the route.

1. Orientation & Vision — Start with the question most couples skip: what are we actually building, together?
   Why it matters: You'll each reflect on what marriage means to you, picture your life five and fifteen years out, and put words to a shared vision you can return to when things get hard.

2. Communication Skills — Learn to say what you mean — and actually hear what your partner means.
   Why it matters: You'll learn to recognize when you're too activated for a productive conversation, then practice "I" statements and reflective listening — skills that show up in nearly every healthy repair conversation a couple has for the rest of their marriage.

3. Conflict Resolution & Apology — Disagree without damage, and know how to repair when you don't.
   Why it matters: A six-part framework for working through conflict, plus a real apology structure — not "sorry, but," but one that actually rebuilds trust.

4. Attachment & Personality Styles — Understand your own wiring, and your partner's.
   Why it matters: Through an attachment styles quiz and a Big Five personality assessment, you'll get language for why certain things trigger you, how you each respond under stress, and how to work with your differences instead of being frustrated by them.

5. Boundaries — Clear enough to navigate by, flexible enough to grow.
   Why it matters: You'll walk through six types of boundaries — physical, sexual, emotional, intellectual, material, and time — and practice setting and holding them with each other and with family, plus fair-fighting guidelines for when conflict runs hot.

6. Values, Life Goals & Worldview — Starting your Relationship Agreements — a living document, not a contract.
   Why it matters: You'll begin the Relationship Agreements Worksheet, writing your own words around communication, conflict and repair, trust, intimacy, individual needs, and shared values — the foundation the rest of the worksheet builds on. You'll close the session practicing the SMART goals framework together on three of life's biggest open questions.

7. Finances Together — Talk about money before money talks for you.
   Why it matters: Building on the boundaries you set in Session 5, you'll write your Area 7 agreement — how you'll combine or separate accounts, who handles day-to-day budgeting, and how you'll face debt or setbacks as partners rather than adversaries.

8. Division of Labor & the Mental Load — Making the invisible work visible.
   Why it matters: Using a detailed household checklist, you'll divide not just chores but the mental load behind them — the remembering, planning, and tracking that so often falls unevenly on one partner without either of you choosing it that way.

9. The Crossroads Conversation — Plan for the forks in the road: career moves, relocation, competing ambitions.
   Why it matters: Using a Sacrifice & Investment handout, you'll write your Area 9 agreement for navigating competing paths — without one of you simply winning or yielding.

10. Intimacy & Connection — Build the kind of closeness that doesn't run on autopilot.
    Why it matters: Through a Love Languages assessment, a Needs vs. Wants reflection, and a dedicated conversation about sexual intimacy, you'll get specific about what makes each of you feel desired, safe, and truly close.

11. Parenting & Family Planning — Whether, when, and how — get on the same page while it's still just a conversation.
    Why it matters: Whether or how you build a family touches nearly every other agreement you've made. You'll write your Area 11 agreement covering timeline, parenting philosophy, decision-making, and the role extended family will play.

12. Love & Closing — Ending on connection, then making it official.
    Why it matters: You'll close the program with a Fun & Bonding exercise — naming what you love about each other and building a real plan to keep choosing each other long after the wedding — then sign your "Our Commitment" page together.

Not a checklist. A foundation. 

• A shared language for conflict, instead of two different ones colliding in the moment.

• Clarity on money, family, and the big decisions, before life forces them on you.

• A written commitment to your marriage, in your own words — not someone else's template.

Start before you say "I do."

Most couples begin somewhere between six and twelve months before the wedding, which leaves room to actually use what you learn.